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A Gift for Every Type of Wife

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The closer the relationship you have with someone, the more pressure there is to find the right gift. So, if you’re shopping for your wife, I imagine you’re sweating. Whether you’re a newlywed trying to nail it, someone trying to say “I love you as a co-parent, but also as a person,” or a pair who’s been gifting for so long you’ve resorted to really scraping the barrel, it seemingly never gets easier. That’s why I’m here to help.

I’ve combed the Strategist archives, rummaged through my mental Rolodex, and also interviewed many tasteful, stylish wives in order to put together a list of 70 gift ideas. I’ve covered a lot of bases here, so all manner of wives (from those in marathon training, to wives who are building up their home cocktail bar) are catered to. My philosophy: Mix highbrow and lowbrow. Stuff a Coach bag full of her favorite childhood candy! Get her a pair of silly duck-shaped toast tongs to go along with a fancy face cream! You know her the best.

Update on November 24, 2024: Updated prices, checked stock, and products added.

Under $25

For the wife who eats lunch over her laptop

This electronics cleaning brush is good for getting into those hard-to-reach nooks and crannies between keys, and Strategist readers love it: It was a best seller last year.

For the wife who puzzles

If one Cinematrix a day isn’t quite enough, your wife can tackle these not-too-challenging Times crosswords, recommended to us by literary critic Molly Young.

For the wife who had to explain ‘everything showers’ to you

$20

She can store everything she needs in this wash bag, which opens almost flat.

For the truly mycological wife

This teeny nightlight cycles between a whole rainbow of shades once plugged in, casting a soothing glow while she drifts off.

For the wife who loves to smooch

This cult-status lip mask leaves lips super-kissable (and is popular with Strategist readers and staffers alike for its plumping, hydrating effect).

For the wife who knows the difference between ceremonial-grade and culinary-grade matcha

For the impatient wife

If she burns herself on the toaster each morning, might she consider some toast tongs?

For the wife who hits her hydration goals

Strategist staffers adore the sippable Owala (which is why it’s on the desks of 14 of us — and counting).

And for the wife who prefers White Claw

$18

This super-slim, super-insulated koozie will fit her spiked seltzer of choice like a glove.

For the wife with a sweet tooth

Sometimes it’s simple: Figure out which candy she loves and buy her a bucket of it.

For the wife who knows comfort is key

Linemin Womens Fuzzy Socks
$10
$10

Myha’la told us she can’t live without these suitably fuzzy socks. They’re perfect for padding around the house (and maybe even the odd errand run).

And the wife whose vibe is more athleisure

For the wife with an ambitious Goodreads goal …

This wearable book light paired with noise-canceling headphones makes the perfect gift for the wife who snuggles up with a page-turner while you snore.

… And the wife who’s a BookTokker

Serious readers will appreciate the option to go hands-free for their nightly pages.

For the wife who’s mastered the flick

This eyeliner is Olympian approved — gymnast Laurie Hernandez confirmed that she wore it when she competed: “Any photos from the Olympics of me as a teenager with eyeliner on, it’s this one.”

… And appreciates a good hair mask

Verb Ghost Hair Mask
$14

A suitable-for-every-texture hair mask from the brand that makes our favorite conditioner.

For the wife who says she doesn’t want anything

A set of mother-of-pearl spoons for scooping salt (or caviar) is a truly charming gift.

For the wife who hosts Sunday brunch

After testing eight, our kitchen and dining writer finally found an egg poacher that works every time — so now your wife only needs to worry about nailing her hollandaise.

For the wife who runs a book club

$20

If she’s already read Intermezzo, she might like this novel by poet Kaveh Akbar. It was my favorite debut of the year and also featured on Vulture’s best 2024 books list (a far stronger endorsement).

For the wife who can never find her earrings

A plush velvet organizer will keep everything accounted for (even on vacation).

For the wife who scans the new-in section at Trader Joe’s

Green Goddess is great for chicken, salad, and eggs — but your wife already knows this.

For the wife who Bikrams

These stretchy tights from Under Armour won’t budge when she hits Downward Dog.

Under $50

For the wife who writes her to-do list on a CVS receipt

A Hobonichi Techo planner can restore a sense of order for the wife with a snowballing to-do list. We should know — it’s made its rounds among a dozen Strategist staffers over the years.

For the wife who loves the smell of old books

Rolife Book Nook Bookstore
$40
$40

As this book nook is a build-yourself, the gift is a twofer: great for both crafty and bookish wives.

For the wife who woke you up at 6 a.m. for Eras Tour tickets

Taylor Swift hides exclusive bonus tracks on each vinyl release, so you’ll be gifting her yet another song to cry along to (a good thing).

For the wife who has a recipes folder on TikTok

Caroline Chambers finally made her wildly popular Substack into a cookbook this summer.

For the wife with a pamper routine

I got a whiff of this in the iconic London department store Liberty of London last week and added it to my wish list instantly. Margaret Dabbs is like the Charlotte Tilbury of foot care.

For the wife who likes to go full glam

Busy wives will appreciate that these extension-looking falsies last for up to five days (with no reapplication).

For the wife with Sephora VIB status

This pillowcase, which may already be on her wish list if she’s into skin care, is made of (skin-care-friendly) 100 percent mulberry silk. (And it’s so nice she’ll never know it was under $30.)

For the wife who’s over Catan

Based on cryptic clues and psychic wavelengths, this grown-up board game can be played in rounds of half an hour.

For the wife who mists

Nicole Scherzinger loves the “illuminating” effect this French face mist has on her skin.

For the wife who can’t keep a cactus alive

As well as being immortal, this LEGO centerpiece is customizable.

For the wife who has “guest” candles

$29

This candle burns for 90 hours and smells like sandalwood (she’ll want to reuse the jar once the candle’s done, too).

For the wife who wants to retire to Florida

$20 for 6

Hailee Steinfeld of all people told us about these funky, stemless margarita glasses that she keeps in her home bar.

For the wife who always picks dessert over an appetizer

Her sweet treat will taste even better from these glamorous spoons designed by Miriam Mirri.

For the wife who travels light

Our deals editor shared that this shoulder bag has been on her mind lately: Now it’s on mine.

For the wife who hosts a weekly paint-and-sip

This watercolor set will keep her and her gal pals happy.

For the wife who knows her Rare from her R.E.M from her Rhode

There’s a lot of celebrity brands about; Rare Beauty is the one for blush.

For the wife who dreams of Meg Ryan’s fall wardrobe

Your wife may have already read some of Ilana Kaplan’s lively, pop-culture reporting. I’m looking forward to her stacked coffee-table book on Nora Ephron’s career in film.

Under $100

For the wife who makes photo albums

The summer 2024 edition will be filled from cover to cover, as she can print photos straight from the camera roll with this handy Kodak printer.

For the wife whose mug collection has seen better days

A set of six colorful Le Creuset mugs is just the type of thing she’d never buy herself.

For the wife who dreams of breakfast at Tiffany’s